Cocktails

St Louis mobile bar service signature cocktails and custom menus for private parties and corporate events. Formally trained mixologist bringing the flavor and flair to your event. From hassle free preset menus to fully customized recipes, I craft thoughtfully curated cocktails for your event.

Cocktail by Kelsie Bender St Louis Mixologist
Cocktail by Kelsie Bender St Louis Mixologist
Signature Cocktails for Parties and Events

Spoil your guests with drinks they’ll never forget. From romantic cocktails that tell your love story 💕to sleek Old Fashioneds and martinis crafted to reflect your refined taste and my signature precision. 🍸

Signature Summer cocktails for Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
Signature Summer cocktails for Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
Grove Mojito by Kelsie Bender Summer Cocktail Menus Bender Mixology
Grove Mojito by Kelsie Bender Summer Cocktail Menus Bender Mixology
Interactive Mocktails for St Louis parties
Interactive Mocktails for St Louis parties
Cocktail Menu of the Month

Southern Decadence

From smoky sips to floral fizzes, this regionally inspired menu celebrates the bold, sultry flavors of the South—where every cocktail drips with charm, heat, and a little mischief.

Blushing Belle, Raspberry Lyche Margarita by mixologist Kelsie Bender
Blushing Belle, Raspberry Lyche Margarita by mixologist Kelsie Bender
Pralines N Cream, bourbon espresso cocktail by Bender Mixology
Pralines N Cream, bourbon espresso cocktail by Bender Mixology
Mississippi Mesquite Old Fashioned southern cocktail by Bender Mixology
Mississippi Mesquite Old Fashioned southern cocktail by Bender Mixology

Homemade Ingredients

Great drinks start with great ingredients. We mix flavors that bring your signature cocktails and mocktails to life and make every sip unforgettable.

Blushing Belle Margarita

Pralines N Cream

Sweet Home Mule, Alabama inspired mule by Kelsie Bender
Sweet Home Mule, Alabama inspired mule by Kelsie Bender

Sweet Home Mule

Bayou Bloom Fizz internationally featured cocktails Bender Mixology Services
Bayou Bloom Fizz internationally featured cocktails Bender Mixology Services

Bayou Bloom Fizz

Nashville Hot Bloody Mary southern style cocktail for events by Bender Mixology
Nashville Hot Bloody Mary southern style cocktail for events by Bender Mixology

Nashville Hot Bloody Mary

Handcrafted ingredients for St Louis and Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
Handcrafted ingredients for St Louis and Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
  • Sugars- Cane, Turbinado, Demerara, Stevia

  • Salts- Kosher, Himalayan Pink, Sea Salt, Smoked Salt, Truffle Salt

  • Powders- Soy Lethicin, Agar Agar, Xanthan Gum, Egg White Protein, Citric Acid, Malic Acid

  • Herbs- Rosemary, Lavender, Thyme, and all things seasonal & local

  • Spices- Saffron, Vanilla, Peppercorn, Allspice Berries, Cardamom, Anise, & many more

  • Fresh Fruit Syrups

  • Fruit & Herb Cordials

  • Tonics

  • Bitters & Tinctures

Mississippi Mesquite Old Fashioned

Low Budget Creations

Luxury doesn’t require top-shelf bottles. With the right ingredients and creative technique, I love crafting even the simplest spirits into exceptional cocktails.

Taste The World

My passport might be dusty, but my flavor game is global. With an inventory full of international finds, I can shake up cocktails inspired by anywhere your heart (or party theme) desires. Enjoy globally inspired cocktails for any party.

Intellectual Property Notice

All recipe names, descriptions, and menu compositions featured on this site are original works by Bender Mixology Services, LLC. These creations are protected intellectual property and may not be copied, rebranded, or recreated — particularly by other businesses or bar services — without written consent or accreditation. We take great pride in the creative process behind every offering and respectfully reserve all rights to our designs. Access to custom recipes is provided exclusively to clients as part of their curated experience. © 2024–2025 Bender Mixology Services, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

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This bold Bloody Mary channels Nashville’s fiery spirit with savory heat and a perfectly spiced kick. Brunch just met its headliner.

A top feature on Alcohol Infusions, this moody New Orleans-style gin fizz is layered with lavender, elderflower, and blackberry. Dark, floral, and a little bit haunted.

Rye whiskey meets mesquite-smoked Demerara and molasses bitters in this smoky-sweet take on a Southern classic. Finished with candied bacon, it’s Mississippi in a glass.

Inspired by Alabama's honeyed warmth, this mule features cardamom-infused wildflower honey, sweet orange bitters, and ginger spice. It’s nostalgic, playful, and hits all the right notes.

An ode to the Houston Texans Cheerleaders, this rosy margarita mixes raspberry, lychee, and Tequila Rose for a cocktail that’s as bold and beautiful as a Southern Belle. Sweet, flirty, and just a little unexpected.

This decadent twist on an espresso martini blends bourbon, praline cream, and rich espresso liqueur. It’s smooth, sultry, and soaked in Southern charm.

Menu Portfolio

Weddings, holidays, or just because—it’s not a party ‘til the drinks make a statement. Each of my custom menus for weddings and private events are crafted to match your theme, wow your guests, and prove you have exceptional taste.

Custom wedding menu for southern Illinois wedding Bender Mixology
Custom wedding menu for southern Illinois wedding Bender Mixology
Summer themed cocktail menus for St Louis birthday party
Summer themed cocktail menus for St Louis birthday party
Custom menu for Chesterfield holiday party Bender Mixology Services
Custom menu for Chesterfield holiday party Bender Mixology Services
Italian themed wedding menu Bender Mixology Services
Italian themed wedding menu Bender Mixology Services
Custom cocktail menu St Louis wedding bartending
Custom cocktail menu St Louis wedding bartending
Summer party menu by Bender Mixology Services
Summer party menu by Bender Mixology Services

July’s Luxe Jungle Disco Menu featuring tropical flavors.

Stylish summer wedding menu for Wisconsin family.

Italian themed wedding menu.

Gulf coast inspired summer party menu.

International inspired wedding menu.

Christmas themed cocktail party menu.

Satisfied Clients

Read what my satisfied clients have to say about our mobile bartending & mixology services.

Nicole G. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

We hired Bender Mixology Services for a large corporate holiday party with 70 guests, and she exceeded expectation! From the very beginning, the planning process was seamless and stress- free. She created a custom menu, complete with beautifully designed signage that made it easy for everyone to choose their drinks.

During the event, she managed the crowd effortlessly, keeping up with the demand while maintaining a cheerful and professional demeanor. Watching her craft cocktails was a highlight for our guests- her skills are truly impressive!

From start to finish, it was a 5 star experience, and we couldn't be happier. Highly recommend Bender Mixology for any event.

Pastor Ryan ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Thank you, Kelsie! 100% reccomend!

Recently, I had the great joy of working with Kelsie from Bender Mixology Services! As the pastor at a church, I was hoping to have several "Bible-themed" cocktails and mocktails for a special reception. Kelsie not only met my expectations: she far exceeded them!

From the moment we connected, Kelsie's creativity and enthusiasm shone through. Kelsie took the time to really understand the essence of our event, sharing her fun and collaborative spirit as we imagined every drink reflecting the themes of the event. Kelsie's knowledge of mixology is truly a gift, and her ability to craft unique, flavorful beverages left such a great impression on our guests!

Kelsie worked with a keen attention to detail, bringing a sense of artistry to her work, and ensuring every drink was not only delicious but also beautifully presented. Additionally, her friendly and warm personality meant so much to me, and it was amazing to see all of the smiles from our guests as they enjoyed their drinks!

Kelsie's passion as a mixologist is evident in every aspect of her work. I highly recommend her services for any event. Thank you, Kelsie, for your wonderful work and for making our event a resounding success. We look forward to working with you again in the future!

Sheryl L. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Kelsie did a great job!

I was amazed at the time and effort Kelsie put in to making a unique drink menu for us. We did a pretasting night to be sure we were on the right track, she made 5 custom syrups to go with our drinks, her mango and watermelon were amazing! She also put together a list of all alcohols needed with estimated costs. And she came a day early to set up the bar so she would have everything where it was needed. So in short, her prep time was substantial. I was very impressed!