Cocktails

Elevate your event with expertise and farm to glass techniques. St Louis mobile bar service and sustainable cocktail catering for events brings artistry and creativity to events throughout the Metro St Louis area. From private parties in Downtown St Louis, to corporate events in Clayton, Kirkwood and Ladue, we’re here to to deliver an elevated option.

Signature cocktail for Metro East private event by Bender Mixology Services.
Signature cocktail for Metro East private event by Bender Mixology Services.
Signature Cocktails for Parties and Events

Spoil your guests with drinks they’ll never forget. From romantic cocktails that tell your love story 💕to sleek Old Fashioneds and Martinis crafted to reflect your refined taste and my signature precision. 🍸

Signature cocktail for Southern Illinois weddings by Bender Mixology Services
Signature cocktail for Southern Illinois weddings by Bender Mixology Services
Signature classic cocktail for St Louis corporate event by Bender Mixology Services.
Signature classic cocktail for St Louis corporate event by Bender Mixology Services.
Signature Old Fashioned for Chesterfield parties by Bender Mixology Services.
Signature Old Fashioned for Chesterfield parties by Bender Mixology Services.
Cocktail Menu of the Month

🍂 Autumn Mystique

Globally inspired and seasonally enchanted, our Halloween menu transforms autumn’s harvest into spellbinding cocktails. With flavors that whisper of fire, spice, and shadow, this collection is designed to turn any October gathering into an unforgettable celebration.

Honey Plum Mule by Kelsie Bender of Bender Mixology Services, featured on St Louis Magazine
Honey Plum Mule by Kelsie Bender of Bender Mixology Services, featured on St Louis Magazine
Ashen Apple Highball, smoky apple Scotch beer cocktail by Bender Mixology.
Ashen Apple Highball, smoky apple Scotch beer cocktail by Bender Mixology.
Pumpkin Spice Bourbon Flip, fall cocktail for St Louis events by Bender Mixology.
Pumpkin Spice Bourbon Flip, fall cocktail for St Louis events by Bender Mixology.

Homemade Ingredients

Great drinks start with great ingredients. We mix flavors that bring your signature cocktails and mocktails to life and make every sip unforgettable.

Honey Plum Mule

Ashen Apple Highball

Matcha Meltdown Negroni by Bender Mixology.
Matcha Meltdown Negroni by Bender Mixology.

Matcha Meltdown Negroni

Spiced Espresso Colada with purple Ube. Halloween cocktail for St Louis events by Bender Mixology.
Spiced Espresso Colada with purple Ube. Halloween cocktail for St Louis events by Bender Mixology.

Velvet Hex Colada

Custom Espresso Martini for Halloween parties in the Metro East by Bender Mixology.
Custom Espresso Martini for Halloween parties in the Metro East by Bender Mixology.

Caramel Obsidian Espresso Martini

Handcrafted ingredients for St Louis and Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
Handcrafted ingredients for St Louis and Chesterfield parties Bender Mixology Services
  • Sugars- Cane, Turbinado, Demerara, Stevia

  • Salts- Kosher, Himalayan Pink, Sea Salt, Smoked Salt, Truffle Salt

  • Powders- Soy Lethicin, Agar Agar, Xanthan Gum, Egg White Protein, Citric Acid, Malic Acid

  • Herbs- Rosemary, Lavender, Thyme, and all things seasonal & local

  • Spices- Saffron, Vanilla, Peppercorn, Allspice Berries, Cardamom, Anise, & many more

  • Fresh Fruit Syrups

  • Fruit & Herb Cordials

  • Tonics

  • Bitters & Tinctures

Pumpkin Spice Bourbon Flip

Taste The World

My passport might be dusty, but my flavor game is global. With an inventory full of international finds, I can shake up cocktails inspired by anywhere your heart (or party theme) desires. Enjoy globally inspired cocktails for any party.

Intellectual Property Notice

All recipe names, descriptions, and menu compositions featured on this site are original works by Bender Mixology Services, LLC. These creations are protected intellectual property and may not be copied, rebranded, or recreated — particularly by other businesses or bar services — without written consent or accreditation. We take great pride in the creative process behind every offering and respectfully reserve all rights to our designs. Access to custom recipes is provided exclusively to clients as part of their curated experience. © 2024–2025 Bender Mixology Services, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

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A luxe, candy -inspired martini where espresso meets salted caramel and white chocolate, finished with an enchanting spiderweb flourish.

A spellbinding cross between a White Russian and a Colada, this signature drink blends creamy vanilla spice, tropical coconut, and rich Filipino Ube into a lush, otherworldly indulgence.

A decadent autumn indulgence, blending bourbon with pumpkin purée, spiced syrup, cinnamon bitters, and egg white to create a silky, seasonal twist on the classic flip.

An avant-garde riff on the Negroni, balancing Matcha with layers of herbal depth, kissed with honey and sesame for a touch of warmth and savory intrigue, crowned with airy foam for a striking finish.

A Japanese-inspired mule that layers Umeshu plum wine with ginger and honey, creating a cocktail that’s bright, sweet-tart, and laced with a subtle warmth of spice.

A smoky, harvest-inspired highball where Scotch and apple-infused Cocchi Americano meet Lapsang tea and crisp apple beer, offering a bold yet refined twist with depth and sophistication.

Featured Cocktails

Cocktails so good, they’ve been featured on some of today’s leading mixology platforms. Enjoy some of our signature creations as seen on Alcohol Infusions, Difford’s Guide, Licor 43 and Crafted Pour.

Menu Portfolio

Weddings, holidays, or just because—it’s not a party ‘til the drinks make a statement. Each of my custom menus for weddings and private events are crafted to match your theme, wow your guests, and prove you have exceptional taste.

Custom wedding menu for southern Illinois wedding Bender Mixology
Custom wedding menu for southern Illinois wedding Bender Mixology
Summer themed cocktail menus for St Louis birthday party
Summer themed cocktail menus for St Louis birthday party
Custom menu for Chesterfield holiday party Bender Mixology Services
Custom menu for Chesterfield holiday party Bender Mixology Services
Italian themed wedding menu Bender Mixology Services
Italian themed wedding menu Bender Mixology Services
Summer party menu by Bender Mixology Services
Summer party menu by Bender Mixology Services

July’s Luxe Jungle Disco Menu featuring tropical flavors.

August’s Luxe Menu, inspired by the warmth, style and flair of Southern Decadence.

Italian themed wedding menu.

Gulf coast inspired summer party menu.

International inspired wedding menu.

Christmas themed cocktail party menu.

Enchanted Reverie sustainable Fall party menu by Bender Mixology.
Enchanted Reverie sustainable Fall party menu by Bender Mixology.

Enchanted Reverie, sustainable September menu.

Custom Victorian style wedding cocktail menu for Southern Illinois wedding by Bender Mixology.
Custom Victorian style wedding cocktail menu for Southern Illinois wedding by Bender Mixology.

Signature romantic Victorian themed October wedding menu.

Satisfied Clients

Read what my satisfied clients have to say about our mobile bartending & mixology services.

Nicole G. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

We hired Bender Mixology Services for a large corporate holiday party with 70 guests, and she exceeded expectation! From the very beginning, the planning process was seamless and stress- free. She created a custom menu, complete with beautifully designed signage that made it easy for everyone to choose their drinks.

During the event, she managed the crowd effortlessly, keeping up with the demand while maintaining a cheerful and professional demeanor. Watching her craft cocktails was a highlight for our guests- her skills are truly impressive!

From start to finish, it was a 5 star experience, and we couldn't be happier. Highly recommend Bender Mixology for any event.

Pastor Ryan ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Thank you, Kelsie! 100% reccomend!

Recently, I had the great joy of working with Kelsie from Bender Mixology Services! As the pastor at a church, I was hoping to have several "Bible-themed" cocktails and mocktails for a special reception. Kelsie not only met my expectations: she far exceeded them!

From the moment we connected, Kelsie's creativity and enthusiasm shone through. Kelsie took the time to really understand the essence of our event, sharing her fun and collaborative spirit as we imagined every drink reflecting the themes of the event. Kelsie's knowledge of mixology is truly a gift, and her ability to craft unique, flavorful beverages left such a great impression on our guests!

Kelsie worked with a keen attention to detail, bringing a sense of artistry to her work, and ensuring every drink was not only delicious but also beautifully presented. Additionally, her friendly and warm personality meant so much to me, and it was amazing to see all of the smiles from our guests as they enjoyed their drinks!

Kelsie's passion as a mixologist is evident in every aspect of her work. I highly recommend her services for any event. Thank you, Kelsie, for your wonderful work and for making our event a resounding success. We look forward to working with you again in the future!

Sheryl L. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Kelsie did a great job!

I was amazed at the time and effort Kelsie put in to making a unique drink menu for us. We did a pretasting night to be sure we were on the right track, she made 5 custom syrups to go with our drinks, her mango and watermelon were amazing! She also put together a list of all alcohols needed with estimated costs. And she came a day early to set up the bar so she would have everything where it was needed. So in short, her prep time was substantial. I was very impressed!