Cocktails

Signature Cocktails for Parties & Events – Mobile Mixologist in St. Louis, bringing the flavor & flair to your celebration. Expertly curated drink menus and full-service bartending in the Metro East, Southern Illinois, and St. Louis.

Cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Signature Cocktails

Spoil your guests with drinks they’ll never forget. From romantic cocktails that tell your love story 💕to sleek Old Fashioneds and martinis crafted to reflect your refined taste and our signature precision. 🍸

Bushfire Mule by Kelsie Bender
Bushfire Mule by Kelsie Bender
Grove Mojito by Kelsie Bender
Grove Mojito by Kelsie Bender
Sea Breeze Elixir Interactive Mocktail
Sea Breeze Elixir Interactive Mocktail
Cocktail Menu of the Month

Tropic Fever

Tropical meets nightlife in this bold, pre-curated lineup. With vibrant flavors and an interactive shot station, Luxe is effortless party glam—just show up and sip.

Tropic Gold pineapple spice cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Tropic Gold pineapple spice cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Cafe Tropic banana espresso cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Cafe Tropic banana espresso cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Neon Jungle melon cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Neon Jungle melon cocktail by Kelsie Bender

Homemade Ingredients

Great drinks start with great ingredients. We mix flavors that bring your beverage to life and make every sip unforgettable.

Tropic Gold: Spiced Pineapple cocktail featuring Banana peel infused Spiced Rum, Amaro and Pineapple Cordial.

Cafe Tropic: Tropical Espresso Martini featuring Blackstrap Rum with Coconut Mocha Espresso & Banana Oleo.

Moonlight Mirage Vesper cocktail by Kelsie Bender
Moonlight Mirage Vesper cocktail by Kelsie Bender

Moonlight Mirage Vesper: Tropical twist on the classic Vesper featuring Coconut washed Vodka, Old Tom Gin & Butterfly Pea Flower Tincture.

Sunset Passion Margarita by Kelsie Bender
Sunset Passion Margarita by Kelsie Bender

Sunset Passion Margarita: Frozen Margarita featuring Tequila Rosé with Guanabana, Passionfruit & Mango.

Interactive shots Bender Mixology Services
Interactive shots Bender Mixology Services

Jungle Shots: Blue Colada shot featuring Coconut Rum & Pineapple, Tropical Punch shot featuring Vodka with Watermelon & Guava.

  • Sugars- Cane, Turbinado, Demerara, Stevia

  • Salts- Kosher, Himalayan Pink, Sea Salt, Smoked Salt, Truffle Salt

  • Powders- Soy Lethicin, Agar Agar, Xanthan Gum, Egg White Protein, Citric Acid, Malic Acid

  • Herbs- Rosemary, Lavender, Thyme, and all things seasonal & local

  • Spices- Saffron, Vanilla, Peppercorn, Allspice Berries, Cardamom, Anise, & many more

  • Fresh Fruit Syrups

  • Fruit & Herb Cordials

  • Tonics

  • Bitters & Tinctures

Neon Jungle: Vodka cocktail featuring Midori, Yuzu, Lime & Watermelon jellies.

Low Budget Creations

Luxury doesn’t require top-shelf bottles. With the right ingredients and creative technique, we turn even the simplest spirits into exceptional cocktails.

Taste The World

Our passport might be dusty, but our flavor game is global. With an inventory full of international finds, we can shake up cocktails inspired by anywhere your heart (or party theme) desires.

Intellectual Property Notice

All recipe names, descriptions, and menu compositions featured on this site are original works by Bender Mixology Services, LLC. These creations are protected intellectual property and may not be copied, rebranded, or recreated — particularly by other businesses or bar services — without written consent or accreditation. We take great pride in the creative process behind every offering and respectfully reserve all rights to our designs. Access to custom recipes is provided exclusively to clients as part of their curated experience. © 2024–2025 Bender Mixology Services, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

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Menu Portfolio

Weddings, holidays, or just because—it’s not a party ‘til the drinks make a statement. Each of our custom menus is crafted to match your theme, wow your guests, and prove you have exceptional taste.

September wedding menu.

Stylish summer wedding menu for Wisconsin family.

Italian themed wedding menu.

Gulf coast inspired summer party menu.

International inspired wedding menu.

Christmas themed cocktail party menu.

Satisfied Clients

Read what our satisfied clients have to say about our mobile bartending & mixology services.

Nicole G. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

We hired Bender Mixology Services for a large corporate holiday party with 70 guests, and she exceeded expectation! From the very beginning, the planning process was seamless and stress- free. She created a custom menu, complete with beautifully designed signage that made it easy for everyone to choose their drinks.

During the event, she managed the crowd effortlessly, keeping up with the demand while maintaining a cheerful and professional demeanor. Watching her craft cocktails was a highlight for our guests- her skills are truly impressive!

From start to finish, it was a 5 star experience, and we couldn't be happier. Highly recommend Bender Mixology for any event.

Pastor Ryan ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Thank you, Kelsie! 100% reccomend!

Recently, I had the great joy of working with Kelsie from Bender Mixology Services! As the pastor at a church, I was hoping to have several "Bible-themed" cocktails and mocktails for a special reception. Kelsie not only met my expectations: she far exceeded them!

From the moment we connected, Kelsie's creativity and enthusiasm shone through. Kelsie took the time to really understand the essence of our event, sharing her fun and collaborative spirit as we imagined every drink reflecting the themes of the event. Kelsie's knowledge of mixology is truly a gift, and her ability to craft unique, flavorful beverages left such a great impression on our guests!

Kelsie worked with a keen attention to detail, bringing a sense of artistry to her work, and ensuring every drink was not only delicious but also beautifully presented. Additionally, her friendly and warm personality meant so much to me, and it was amazing to see all of the smiles from our guests as they enjoyed their drinks!

Kelsie's passion as a mixologist is evident in every aspect of her work. I highly recommend her services for any event. Thank you, Kelsie, for your wonderful work and for making our event a resounding success. We look forward to working with you again in the future!

Sheryl L. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Kelsie did a great job!

I was amazed at the time and effort Kelsie put in to making a unique drink menu for us. We did a pretasting night to be sure we were on the right track, she made 5 custom syrups to go with our drinks, her mango and watermelon were amazing! She also put together a list of all alcohols needed with estimated costs. And she came a day early to set up the bar so she would have everything where it was needed. So in short, her prep time was substantial. I was very impressed!